J is for Jargogle which means to confuse or jumble something up.
I chose this word as I can relate to it a lot. I have been a specialist in confusing people, emotions and situations. That does not mean I manipulate but the meaning I derive is different from what it is supposed to be meant sometimes. Is it bad? Yes!!! It is very bad as things don’t end well or a task is left incomplete due to my misunderstanding. You can give me the benefit of doubt saying I thought of something else but in the end that’s not what is supposed to happen. I need to understand.
By understanding I mean whenever there is something we discuss about, I ask questions. It might sound stupid or also be of common sense but we must not forget that common sense is not common. Hence its better to ask than to do something wrong. I always encourage my friends too to ask questions whenever in doubt. It’s not wrong. Who knows it might end up saving your relationship/job etc.
Also one benefit of being clear is that your mind has no more of doubts and all goes as per plan. But if you’re unclear, you’ll jargogle something and that will be bad. So let’s start being clear and only jargogle lesser than often.
This post is part of the A to Z Challenge 2018.
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